It’s easy to look back after the fact and see what the turning point was, where things changed. And as you trace actions back, each one building off the last, you realize that the trail of breadcrumb memories all lead to this moment right here, right now. For better or for worse. How does that make you feel? At which points along the way do you cringe and wish you’d done it differently?
Those cringe-worthy moments are the ones most worth examining. If you cringe to think of it now, some part of you probably sensed a poor decision even when it was happening. Which is kind of annoying to look back on, actually. Some part of you knew, even then, but you did it anyway. You essentially made the wrong choice on purpose.
As humans, we do it all the time. We reason ourselves into things and we reason our way back out. Our mind is in the driver’s seat and our instinct rides shotgun. The problem is, the driver is quite blind.